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7 Important First Date Questions You Should Not Forget To Ask Your Date

It is easy to get carried away while having fun with that handsome dude or lady, and forget to ask necessary questions if you are looking to have more of such dates. Here are some questions you do not want to forget.



1. "Are you single and ready to date" ?

This question sets the path straight for wanting to take things further or date. If you offer to take a girl out, she may see it as a kind gesture of yours and not a romantic date. So make sure you pop this question. She may not be ready for a relationship due to personal reasons, or maybe she just got her heart broken.


2. Genotype and Blood group.

Only if people learnt to ask this question on time, maybe we wouldn't have the number of sickle cell patients as we have now. Learn to ask this question on time so that you don't bring an innocent child into the world to suffer. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking this question so do not feel shy. In fact, it is a sign that you want to take things further with her.


3. Relationship expectations

In a good enough relationship, people have high expectations for how they're treated. They expect to be treated with kindness, love, affection, and respect. They do not tolerate emotional or physical abuse. They expect their partner to be loyal. So make sure you discuss this. It makes the date pretty interesting.


4. "Any medical or health conditions" ?

Medical conditions like HIV and AIDS, STDs, Cancer, lupus or fibroid in women, are examples of medical conditions that can be deadly if you decide to enter into a relationship with a carrier.


5. Deal breakers


Deal-breakers in relationships are the things that will cause you to call it quits — no matter how long you've been together. Some common deal-breakers include a partner's stance on having children, philosophy pertaining to faith and worship, or a lack of ambition. If you won't tolerate any of this in marriage, then do not tolerate it in courtship, so make sure you discuss this.


6. "Does someone think they are in a relationship with you right now" ?


Some guys may enter into a relationship without your own knowledge. Funny right? One morning they begin to call you "baby", and the next day they are asking about your whereabouts and warning you to get home before it's late. And only because you smile at their advances, they assume that you are their girlfriend. If you feel like you have such person(s) in your life, then you should say so.


7. "Do you date for fun or to marry" ?


This is a very pertinent question to ask especially if you are going on a date with someone above 25. This is because they are in a period of their life where they should settle down with kids and not play around.

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